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Overcoming too much modesty


Welcome to this episode of Voice Of Chiitan. In today's episode, we will be discussing the topic of "Overcoming too much modesty." Modesty can be a positive trait, but when it becomes excessive, it can hold us back from achieving our full potential. In this podcast, we will be exploring the causes and consequences of excessive modesty, as well as some tips on how to overcome it and become more confident.


Understanding Excessive Modesty : 

The first step in overcoming excessive modesty is to understand what it is and why it happens. Excessive modesty is when someone underestimates their own abilities and accomplishments, even when they are objectively successful. It can stem from several factors, including:


Low self-esteem: People with low self-esteem may feel unworthy of recognition or praise.


Fear of failure: People who fear failure may downplay their achievements to avoid disappointment if they do not meet their own or others' expectations.


Cultural and societal expectations: In some cultures and societies, modesty is highly valued, and individuals may feel pressure to downplay their successes.


 The Consequences of Excessive Modesty

Excessive modesty can have several negative consequences, including:

Missed opportunities: When we underestimate our own abilities, we may miss out on opportunities for growth and success.

Low self-confidence: Excessive modesty can lead to low self-confidence, which can hold us back in both personal and professional settings.

Undervaluing ourselves: When we consistently downplay our accomplishments, we may not get the recognition or respect we deserve.

Tips for Overcoming Excessive Modesty

There are several things we can do to overcome excessive modesty and become more confident, including:


Acknowledge our strengths and accomplishments: It is important to recognize our strengths and accomplishments, no matter how small they may seem.

Change our self-talk: Instead of focusing on our weaknesses and flaws, we should focus on our strengths and positive qualities.

Practice self-compassion: We should treat ourselves with kindness and understanding, just as we would treat a friend who is struggling with self-doubt.


Remember, it is important to acknowledge our strengths and accomplishments and to treat ourselves with kindness and compassion. By doing so, we can overcome our self-doubt and achieve our full potential.


With Love

Swetha VishnuChittan

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