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The Power of Company-How Surrounding Yourself with the Right People Can Shape Your Life !

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The company we keep plays a significant role in shaping our character and influencing our actions. 

"A wise person is drawn to us like a pearl to a shell, while fake people will fear being in our presence." A decade ago, My friend shared these words with me. 

Just like a valuable shell attracts a pearl, the people we surround ourselves with can either uplift us or bring us down. It is essential to understand that not every shell is valuable, and not everyone we meet is worth our time and energy.

One of the biggest mistakes we can make is falling into the trap of being in the wrong company just to fit in or please others. When we surround ourselves with people who engage in negative behavior, such as gossiping, backstabbing, and dishonesty, we are likely to get sucked into their toxic energy and become a part of their destructive cycle.

It's easy to get caught up in the moment and join in on gossip or negative talk, but it's important to remember that these actions do not reflect who we are as individuals. We must stand our ground and refuse to participate in these negative behaviors, even if it means standing alone.

Instead, seek out positive influences and surround yourself with people who encourage and inspire you to be the best version of yourself. These individuals will support you in your goals and aspirations, and their positive energy will help lift you up when you need it the most.

In conclusion, just like a valuable shell attracts a pearl, the people we surround ourselves with have a significant impact on our lives. Choose your company wisely and be selective about who you allow into your inner circle. Don't be afraid to let go of those who bring negativity into your life, and instead, seek out those who uplift and inspire you. Remember, it's better to stand alone than to be in the wrong company.

Have you ever experienced the influence of the company you keep in your life? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below!

Thank you

Swetha VishnuChittan

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