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Finding Yourself: Rediscovering Your Originality

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 Hey all, Namasthe and Greetings!


It's easy to fall into the trap of trying to change yourself to fit in with other people's tastes and preferences. Maybe you feel like you don't quite fit in, or perhaps you want to impress someone. Whatever the reason, losing your originality can leave you feeling lost and disconnected from who you truly are. 


In a world that often values conformity over individuality, it's easy to lose sight of our unique qualities and adopt the preferences and tastes of those around us. This can lead to a sense of disconnection and a feeling of missing oneself. However, the good news is that it's never too late to reclaim your originality and experience a deep transformation. By taking steps such as acknowledging your feelings, identifying the root cause, and embracing your unique qualities, you can rediscover your true self and live a more authentic and fulfilling life. In this blog, we'll explore practical ways to help you find your way back to your authentic self.


Losing your originality is a common experience in a world that constantly pressures us to fit in and conform to society's standards. It's easy to get caught up in the opinions of others and forget who we truly are. But the good news is that it's possible to find your way back to your authentic self and experience deep transformation.


Here are some steps to take:


Acknowledge your feelings.

It's essential to acknowledge and accept the emotions that come with losing your originality. You may feel lost, disconnected, and unsure of who you are. It's okay to feel this way. Recognize that these feelings are a natural response to the situation.


Identify the root cause.

What caused you to lose your originality? Was it peer pressure, a desire to fit in, or something else? Understanding the root cause can help you identify patterns in your behavior and make changes to prevent a similar situation from happening in the future.


Reflect on your values.

What do you value most in life? Take some time to reflect on your beliefs, passions, and dreams. Write them down and remind yourself of what's important to you.


Embrace your unique qualities.

What makes you unique? Your quirks, talents, and personality traits are what make you stand out from the crowd. Embrace these qualities and celebrate them.


Let go of the need for approval.

Stop seeking approval from others and focus on accepting and approving of yourself. Remember, you don't need anyone else's validation to be happy and fulfilled.


Take action.

Make a plan to integrate your true self into your daily life. Set small goals that align with your values and take steps towards living an authentic life

Take a step back and reflect on who you are.

When was the last time you really thought about who you are and what makes you unique? Take some time to reflect on your strengths, passions, and values. Make a list of your achievements, big and small, and remind yourself of your strengths.


Stop trying to please others.

It's easy to fall into the trap of trying to please others and make them happy. However, when you do this at the expense of your own happiness and authenticity, you're only hurting yourself. Remember, you can't please everyone, and that's okay. Focus on being true to yourself, and the right people will appreciate you for who you are.


Embrace your quirks and imperfections.

We all have quirks and imperfections, but that's what makes us unique and special. Embrace your quirks and imperfections and see them as part of what makes you who you are. Don't be afraid to show your true colors and let your personality shine through.


Surround yourself with positive people.

Surround yourself with people who support and encourage you to be your best self. Avoid people who criticize or try to change you, and instead, seek out those who appreciate and celebrate your uniqueness.


Practice self-care.

Taking care of yourself is essential for your mental and emotional well-being. Make time for activities that bring you joy and help you relax, such as reading, meditating, or taking a walk in nature


In conclusion, rediscovering your originality is a powerful journey that can lead to a deep sense of personal transformation and fulfillment. By embracing your unique qualities, letting go of the need for approval, and taking action aligned with your values, you can unlock your full potential and live a more authentic life. Remember that you are worthy of love and acceptance just the way you are, and with time, effort, and self-compassion, you can achieve your dreams and become the best version of yourself. 

Keep pushing forward, and never forget the power of being true to yourself.


Stay tuned 

Swetha Vishnuchittan 

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