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Nature of People & Pleasing them :

 Namasthe all, Greetings!


We have different sets of people around us. Some are Introverts and some Extroverts. Some are mixed. 

Indeed, People are complex, and their behavior is influenced by a variety of factors, including their upbringing, life experiences, mental health, and social environment. It is possible for someone to behave in ways that are hurtful or harmful to others, but it doesn't necessarily mean that they are inherently "bad."


Sometimes people behave in hurtful ways because they are struggling with their own personal issues or past traumas, and they may not have the skills or resources to cope in healthier ways. In other cases, people may be acting out of self-interest or a desire for power or control.


It's important to remember that people are capable of change, and it's possible for someone who has behaved badly in the past to learn and grow from their experiences. However, it's also important to set boundaries and protect yourself from people who consistently behave in ways that are harmful or toxic.


We cannot please everyone all the times. That is a wise sentiment. 

It is impossible to make everyone happy all the time, and it is important to prioritize your own well-being and values. When you stay true to yourself, you attract people who respect and support you for who you are, and those relationships are likely to be more meaningful and fulfilling. However, it is also important to be open to feedback and willing to consider different perspectives, as this can help you grow and learn. Ultimately, the key is to strike a balance between being true to yourself and being open to others.


Be Happy & Stay Positive. ☺


Thanks. 

Yours 

Voice of chittan.....

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