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Judge Vs Being Judge : How to tackle?

 

Hey all…. Namasthe and have a great Day!

 

Do you agree if I say that what we know about others is often limited and incomplete? 

We often only see a small part of someone's life or behavior, and we may not be aware of their circumstances, challenges, or experiences that have shaped their actions and choices.

 

It is crucial to approach others with empathy, respect, and an open mind, rather than making negative judgments based on superficial or limited information. We should acknowledge that everyone has their own unique story, and their actions and behaviors may be influenced by factors that we may not fully understand or appreciate.

 

By avoiding negative judgments and trying to understand others' perspectives, we can foster better communication, build stronger relationships, and create a more compassionate and supportive community. So let us not judge others.😌

 

Okay…You may have still a dilemma on what if others are judging you wrong and propagating negatively about you. Isn’t it??😏

Yeah… It can be difficult and frustrating when people judge us unfairly and spread negative opinions about us to others. However, there are a few things you can do in such situations:

 

Stay calm and avoid reacting impulsively: It is important not to react impulsively to negative opinions or rumors. Stay calm and composed, and do not let your emotions cloud your judgment.

 

Clarify the situation: If you feel that people are misjudging you, try to clarify the situation and provide evidence or explanations that can clear any misunderstandings.

 

Focus on your strengths and continue to improve: Instead of getting demotivated by negative opinions, focus on your strengths and continue to improve yourself. Show through your actions that you are capable and efficient.

 

Seek support from trusted individuals: Seek support from trusted individuals who know you well and can vouch for your capabilities. This can help counter any negative opinions or rumors that are being spread about you.

 

Remember that negative opinions and rumors can spread quickly, but the truth often prevails in the end. Keep a positive attitude, believe in yourself, and focus on your goals and aspirations.

Always TRUTH wins. How? With Examples Let me share in the Next Blog !!

Please Comment If you agree.

 

 

Be Happy. Stay Positive.😀

 

Thank You.

Yours

Voice of Chiittan

 

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