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A sign of maturity-I

Hello and Namasthe….and welcome to today's episode of our blog where we will be discussing the topic "Small talks no longer excite you, a sign of maturity".

 

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As we grow older, we often find ourselves less interested in superficial conversations and more focused on deeper, meaningful interactions. This is what we'll be exploring in this episode.

 

The Shift in Focus: When we're younger, we tend to engage in small talk as a way of building social connections and networking. We ask questions like "What do you do for work?" or "Where did you grow up?" as a way of breaking the ice and getting to know each other. However, as we age, our priorities shift and we become less interested in surface-level conversations and more focused on building deeper relationships.

The Sign of Maturity: This shift in focus is a sign of maturity. It shows that we are no longer content with superficial interactions and instead crave more meaningful connections. We value our time and energy and want to spend it in a way that is fulfilling and enriching. This is not to say that small talk is inherently bad or unimportant, but rather that we no longer see it as the end goal of social interactions.

Building Deeper Connections: So, how do we go about building these deeper connections? It starts with asking more open-ended questions that invite people to share their thoughts and feelings. Instead of asking "What do you do for work?", we might ask "What drives you in your career?" or "What inspired you to pursue your current path?". These types of questions not only help us get to know someone better but also create an environment where people feel comfortable opening up and sharing more about themselves.

 

In conclusion, the fact that small talk no longer excites us is a sign of maturity. It shows that we value deeper connections and are no longer content with surface-level interactions. By asking more open-ended questions and being more intentional with our social interactions, we can build more meaningful relationships that enrich our lives. Thank you for reading Voice of Chittan , we hope you found it insightful and informative.

 

Regards

Swetha VishnuChittan

 

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